The why?

So I thought I’d start this whole thing off with… why? Why am I doing this thing?

I believe writing can truly be therapeutic.

And as someone who has spent the better half of my life working on emotional well-being, I am open to anything that can give me that sweet, sweet dopamine hit.

In all honesty, I think its time I start celebrating my life. I am quite a sensitive (read: emotional) person, and so much of my existence is focused on the negatives. I spend so much time fixating on failures that I get paranoid about the future and the many (many, many, MANY) ways it could all go wrong. Why is it that failures always overshadow the successes? Why are the failures given the spotlight and the successes get 10 seconds of air time to then be forgotten?

I need to shake this shit up! I need to start shifting my perspective. I’m hoping that by journaling my achievements I will focus my brain on the positives and hopefully bring a sense of pride and joy in all that I have accomplished. And the dopamine.

I’m also hoping it will give me motivation to keep working toward my goals.

I have had my bucket list ongoing for a long time now.

Back in 2009 I went on a youth camp that had us go through a whole heap of confidence building activities (including WALKING ON FIRE, but that’s a story for another time).  One exercise was to list 10 things we wanted to do before we kick it. A bucket list! To my surprise, the first 10 came remarkably easy so I said to myself “self, I bet I can do 90 more of these!”

Turns out I could! And did!

Since then this thing has undergone some changes as I find your priorities shift a little as you age, but for the most part it has remained the same. I’m also knocking quite a few of them off the list, so why not write this down?

So enough faffing about, lets get on with the list…

  1. Get my driver’s licence
  2. Get a tattoo
  3. Get a piercing
  4. Dye my hair a crazy colour
  5. Donate blood
  6. March in a parade
  7. Rescue an animal from a shelter
  8. Get to my goal weight
  9. Wear a swimsuit with pride
  10. Take part in a marathon
  11. Take part in a colour run
  12. Take cooking classes
  13. Take fitness classes
  14. Take Yoga classes
  15. Learn self defence
  16. Take dance classes
  17. Learn to do the splits
  18. Learn to do a shoulder stand
    Friends & Family
  19. Make a family video
  20. Create a family photo album
  21. Research my family tree
  22. Go on a holiday with Mum & Dad
  23. Give back to Mum & Dad
  24. Throw a surprise party for a friend
  25. Fall in love
  26. Get married
  27. Become a Mum
    Career & Money
  28. Graduate with my Bachelor’s degree
  29. Earn six figures a year
  30. Pay off my HECS/HELP debt
  31. Own a car
  32. Own an apartment
  33. Own a house
  34. Invest in the stock market
  35. Donate $5,000 to a charity
  36. Work for a charity
  37. Do volunteer work
  38. Get a promotion
  39. Become a manager
    Fun & Recreation
  40. Learn piano
  41. Learn guitar
  42. Learn to read sheet music
  43. Learn sign language
  44. Learn a foreign language
  45. Create a painting
  46. Take a photography course
  47. Take a scrapbooking course
  48. Make my own recipe book
  49. Make my own website
  50. Read all novels on Top 100 list
  51. Watch movies on Top 100 list
  52. Knit a blanket
  53. Learn Origami
  54. Learn to juggle
  55. Participate in a Zombie Walk
  56. Participate in a Flash Mob
  57. Participate in a World Record attempt
  58. Go to a Renaissance festival
  59. Attend Comic-Con in costume
  60. Have a professional photo shoot
  61. Go to music festival
  62. See a musical
  63. Throw a themed party
    Travel & Adventure
  64. Visit Jenny
  65. Meet a hero of mine
  66. Have a white Christmas
  67. See the Great Barrier Reef
  68. See the Great Wall of China
  69. See the Eiffel Tower
  70. See Big Ben
  71. Pray in the Vatican
  72. Pay my respects at Gallipoli
  73. Visit Auschwitz
  74. Witness the Aurora Borealis
  75. Gamble in Las Vegas
  76. Go to a show on Broadway
  77. Go to Disney Land
  78. Attend a film premiere
  79. Be an extra in a movie
  80. Be part of a TV show audience
  81. Stay in a 5-star hotel
  82. Eat at a 5-star restaurant
  83. Go on a spa weekend
  84. Fire walk
  85. Shoot a gun
  86. Bungee Jump
  87. Sky dive
  88. Experience zero gravity
  89. Sleep in a castle
  90. Go on a cruise
  91. Swim with Dolphins
  92. Snorkel in a ship wreck
  93. Go Scuba Diving
  94. Swim in a waterfall
  95. Go horseback riding
  96. Go on a balloon ride
  97. Go on a helicopter ride
  98. Build a snowman
  99. Go skiing
  100. Go Zorbing

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